Adversity sounds like a bad thing, but experts say the opportunity to overcome a difficult situation can be a valuable gift. “Times of adversity are simply steppingstones to live a better life,” says Coach Michael Taylor, author of the new book, “Adversity Is Your Greatest Ally.”
Born in the projects, a victim of child abuse and a high school dropout, Taylor was very familiar with hardships in his childhood—and has been no stranger to it in adulthood. His new book details his journey and offers advice to others seeking to do the same.
Taylor shares five tools needed to overcome adversity.
Take responsibility for your life
You can’t blame your parents, where you were born or the color of your skin. You can’t blame lack of education, an ex-spouse or your age. Decide to take 100 percent responsibility for your life and make your dreams a reality.
Leave your comfort zone
Fear is a choice. You can choose to let it destroy your dreams or you can embrace fear and use it as a tool to motivate you. You need to learn to become comfortable with being uncomfortable if you truly want to accomplish extraordinary things.
Commit to growth
Read books and take classes that provide you with the knowledge and support to accomplish goals and feel better about yourself. Self improvement should be a lifetime goal.
Develop a positive PMA
If you’re determined to transform adversities into allies, you must start with a positive mental attitude. Negativity makes life’s challenges seemingly more difficult to overcome.
Discover what makes you unique
Every person is uniquely gifted and talented. Identifying your gifts and talents will point you to your true purpose in life.
