Since many children may live safe and protected lives, you may think that they do not have the opportunity or the need to be courageous. However, the last eight weeks have taught all of us—courage is required during uncertainty.
As your family has navigated this COVID-19 crisis, I’m confident your entire family has exercised courage. The reality is learning to be courageous is an essential aspect of a child’s character development.
Being brave in the face of fear and doing what needs to be done even when it is really hard are both examples of courage.
Need help explaining courage to your kids? Keep reading.
What is courage?
Children need courage when they:
Having courage helps children to persevere against challenges, and in the process it raises their self-esteem. When children feel good about themselves and see that they have the personal power to make courageous choices, they are more likely to lead personally satisfying and successful lives.
How can parents help children to show courage?
Parents are their children’s first and most important teachers and, as such, have a powerful influence on their development. You can:
Make sure your children understand what courage is.
Define it and point it out when you, they or someone else demonstrates it. Use news stories, television programs, movies, or books as learning tools.
Use everyday situations for your children to demonstrate courage.
Encourage them to:
Praise your children when they demonstrate courage.
Highlight the positive!
Use mistakes as learning opportunities.
Do not use them as a reason to punish. Create a positive atmosphere that will encourage them to face and admit their mistakes openly and honestly. Teach them what they can do differently and how they can make amends.
Be a source of support for your children.
All people, and especially children, can better demonstrate courage when they know they are not alone and that someone “has their back.”
Teach your children that sometimes asking for help takes courage.
Let them know that they don’t have to face all difficult situations by themselves and that it can be a sign of strength to ask for help.